I have been dating someone for more than a year now and he kept saying we are yet to know each other well and we should not think of marrying till after two years of dating. He has a kid already and he wants the kid to clock 10 before getting serious. He also shared he wouldn’t stay with a lady in the same house. We have to stay apart he does not want to experience a lady sending him out of the house. Plus he shows no form of affection at all, I am always forcing him to be sweet and affectionate with me and he keeps saying he does love up before but he doesn’t want to experience heartbreak again so he prefer to be nonchalant.. I met someone last month and he is including me in his plans already, he does not have a kid yet and he is affectionate about me but we are both AS. We reside in USA and he believes the health system here would work for AS couple. I am confused.