I have been dating my girl for 4years now. I met her when she was just in her year1 and she is about to Graduate now and I have been supporting her since I met her even more than her parents because her family is not that well to do. She is about 22 and I am about 25. I love her so much and I really want to settle down with her. Since we have been together I have changed like 3 cars and I am currently living in my own house and I am building my second house. God have really been blessing me. I believe so much in her and is one reason why I am so investing in her. Sometimes we discuss about marriage I tell her how I would love to have only 2 kids so we can take good care of them and give them the type of life we never had and that I am not a big fan of large weddings. I prefer to do a small wedding and use the remaining money to travel with her on a vacation as we have never been to any other country besides being in Nigeria or I use that money to buy her a car as I already drive a very nice car a Mercedes Benz. Recently we had one of those discussion we were talking about weddings then I told her a #10million wedding is not necessary she come laugh say who still dey do wedding of #10million, I shock. She wants a cake that is as huge as a house and cost roughly 2-3million only. Even if I have the money is spending about #15million on a wedding for one day is it not stupidity? Omo Shey I no go run away like this??? She said it’s her dream wedding.
P.S:- She’s not working or making any money I understand that she is still in school I am her only source of income. What should I do is this a red flag??