My ex japaed without informing me,his excuse was shitty. Long story short, one of his friends, japaed recently and he gave me every single details, from the processing to his daily life at the moment. Along the line i fell in love with him, he said he can’t be friends with my ex anymore because of what we have, said he broke the bro code, idgaf really. Tbh our love feels like home, going to spend a month with him,in January 🙈… Moral lesson: don’t let your ex stop you from finding your soulmate ❤