Met this girl and we started dating, we became best of friends so to me I believed I’ve found a wife. She got a bank job and became distant and emotionally unavailable. I was gaslighted and ghosted to the point where I went into complete depression because I couldn’t believe the woman I love and was willing to go all out for could literally change just like that without me cheating or committing any crime. Thankfully, I’ve moved on and become richer, just got my second car😊. But anything concerning relationship is out of it for me. I’m now on “Pay As You Go” (payg) you talk about love I block you.
You are only setting yourself up for unhappiness. It doesn’t affect the woman who has gone.
The best revenge? Move on and find love. You don’t have to actively search for love. Just be open-minded so you don’t miss it when it comes to you.