My girlfriend been living with me for a while and we both have good times together, I mean going out on dates and smoking most times to be high and makes us feel good , she can stay weeks without s-x but I can’t. I told her about this but she’s always saying if I want it I should tell her what to do , lol , is she my toy ? What’s the essence of it when she can’t just initiate it ? Must I be the one everytime ? . I just been verified on tinder but I don’t want to cheat .