My husband got sneakers delivered to the house, and I ask him why he never gets me stuff, like oh I saw this and I knew you would like it, or this would look good on you, it doesn’t have to be expensive, just something to show you think about me. He responds with “I’m too young for this talk, it’s old married people that have these kinds of arguments”, I got very angry because why is my communicating what I want “nagging like an old wife” to you? I’ve been asking this man for flowers for months and his constant response is “do you want to eat it?”