I got married when I was 18 left the marriage at 20, maybe I didn’t understand what that word red flags 🚩 meant , maybe I didn’t think twice before jumping in, maybe he didn’t love me as much as I loved him. Alot happened to me in the space of two months after our traditional marriage, had miscarriages, got abused, almost committed suicide, got cheated on. Yea am out successful and happy but I have somuch hatred for marriages, I don’t think I ever want to get married again. I am now 25, but the thought of getting married reminds me of a past I can’t erase, I saw hell, would cry all night and he would sleep peacefully and most times he never came home