My dad died of AIDS 3 years ago we didn’t know, I guess my mum knew but am not sure he only knew he had kidney problem we thought that’s what killed him, then my mum died last month. Before she died, we found out she had AIDS but her kidney was badly damaged and she was having dementia so we had lot of questions we wanted to ask her but we couldn’t, she died with the secrets. Now I keep wondering if my dad gave it to her or she gave him, or she knew he had it and kept quiet.