I want to be in good terms with my ex, I don’t mean dating but just good terms! We dated for about 6 years and I’ve been faithful all along. Along the line we started having so much issues most of it caused by him but I kept pushing because I love him so much. One night he saw a flirty message that I sent to a male friend on my phone and I deeply apologized to him but he held on to it, we finally broke up and I was feeling really guilty that I caused it, until about 2-3months after when I saw his wedding picture with someone else, I didn’t know he was dating this particular lady all along while we were together. This broke me so much because he acted like the victim and made me look like the bad person. All I needed at that time was just a sincere apology and I will move on. Now I’ve forgiven him and moved on, we attend the same church, We see each other sometimes but we don’t even exchange pleasantries, I have tried making the move but it’s not working. I just want to be in good terms with him, I mean no harm.