My ex was heartless in our relationship. First time she took me out, I found out she was sending her nudes to her sister’s male friend, and he was paying her #20k. The same guy she went to meet around December 2019, when she lied to me she was going to her sister’s place at Lekki. I got to know this when I wanted to wake her to pickup her phone when the phone calls from this guy were consistent. When he stopped calling, then he dropped a message saying “I missed your raw pictures”. I got mad I had to look into the phone, there I found lot of things. I forgave her. Everything became sweeter afterwards, she started going out with some indigene where her school is situated, she started having affair with him until she got pregnant for him. I went to the abortion room with her, omg I saw blood, and how the doctor was hitting her stomach, pumping out the blood with some pipe. I was bitterly crying, I forgave her, stood with her for weeks so that she can get better, because the abortion got her weaker. I was boiling water, massaging her stomach and all parts of her body every night with “rob”. Until her birthday. I was there for her and I had to leave because I lost my grandma same day. After the burial, back to my normal life and one of her friends that got tired of her smart attitude lol told me everything. I told my ex to swear with Bible if she has never had sex with this man? She didn’t speak, she told many people I’m suffering from insecurities. Some of her best and close friends advised me to leave her. She called to beg after five days. Omo I was traumatized for months, I was really used 🥺