I have realized that I am really bored in my relationship. And before you say, find something to spice it up, I do all the time but my man is a total buzzkill. He won’t ever bring anything new up and when I come up with ideas, he will be the first to say no. All he wants is cuddle. Abeg. I want to cuddle after a fun or exciting day. No be say na always but occasionally wouldn’t be so bad, would it?