I have been dating this guy for 2 years now, i am 25 and he is 30 but am confused. He want to marry me though right from the first week of our relationship, he was still with his ex trying to break the relationship when we met. My problem now is that he loves me I know for sure but he used to call me names and he is the type that like to live with his girlfriend. He has mad me lose all my friends because he thinks the are not good for me. He has raised his hands on me (the first in my life ). Fast forward to present i am no longer in Nigeria, made up my mind that once I leave i am done with him. He has been begging me that he is not the same person again, he have changed that he will never in his life do those things again, even told the elder sister to help him beg me. This has been going on for 5 months now. I don’t hate him but am confused if he have changed or is it because i am no longer in Nigeria. I heard that once a man raise his hands on you, no matter what happened he will never stop.