I’m about to breakup with my girlfriend, I really do really love her and I know this will hurt her. I’m about to go abroad for a long time and I just can’t make it a long distance relationship. I’ve done that before with someone else and I didn’t like it. My girlfriend is a good girl, she’s lovely, sweet and intelligent, but I feel I have no other option than to do this. I feel tormented by it already. To make matters worst, even after the breakup, I will still keep seeing her because we attend the same church and that would increase the awkwardness. I really do feel bad. The girl’s mother was also good to me but no, I can’t be in a long distance relationship.