I don’t know why older people take advice as disrespect. The day i told my mom she complains a lot, that day i didn’t hear it ooo!!! And i wasn’t even rude or anything. My parents just drain me to be honest, mother complains a lot, Father has annoying anger issues. I’m a tidy neat person but they disorganise the house a lot, leaving it for me to clean up. I’m actually so tired to be honest. They think yelling makes us respect them but it just pushes me away. I told them I don’t have a relationship with them and they were bringing up paying of fees. As how nau? Does paying school fees and doing your necessary responsibility guarantee a relationship with your child. Like I’m so distant from them, its difficult to take advice from them either. Omo i just hope things get better.