I’m engaged but I don’t want to get married to him, I only accepted the ring because it was a public engagement and I didn’t want to disgrace him else he might beat me up there. I’m so scared for myself but I don’t know how to leave, he wouldn’t even let me, he would beat me right back into the relationship, he’s spent so much on me and he feels I’m his property. Nobody knows he beats me expect my bestie, I’m literally driving a 2020 Mercedes GLE coupe and crying 😭.


  1. I am terribly sorry to read such a heartbreaking story. However, whilst it would seem as though you are indebted to him because of how much he has spent on you, you owe it to yourself and to your family to break that engagement. Domestic abuse isn’t a joke. The fact that social media clowns would say it is better to cry in a 2020 Mercedes Benz GLE than smile on an Okada is appalling and shows how degraded our societal values have become. If you are beaten to death, that Mercedes would belong to another girl in a jiffy! Know this and know peace.

    Also, a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. I can also deduce from your write up that no one knows he beats you up except your bestie. My dear, it is time to break off that relationship and speak up. If you need help reporting to the right authorities to get a restraining order. please reach out to connotare, I would leave my details with her.

    I would hate to see another woman die in silence when she could have easily walked away from it. If you need someone to talk to, reach out to connotare and help would come..

    Your life is more important and beautiful future awaits you than the current wealth and money you are enjoying.

    Please be guided!

    Ps: Ladies, NEVER accept an engagement ring for fear of what he would do to you or what you stand to lose (mostly material things) and sacrifice your peace of mind and well being on the altar of such.

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