I ought to be getting married soon but I don’t want to have my traditional marriage at my father’s house, my mum keeps saying it’s an abomination if he doesn’t bless me but I can’t do it. This man abandoned my sister mum and I since I was 2 and my sister was just ten months he threw us out into the rain and till today we haven’t heard from him. Before his father died, (that is my grandfather died) he cursed my dad, I told my mum I don’t want a cursed man to bless my marriage but everyone thinks I’m stubborn. I’m tired 😓, I don’t know if it’s compulsory I have my traditional marriage at his house 😩😩Godddd.