All of my life, I live life not asking for help I will rather do everything positive to sort myself out. This issue has played so much in me to level of having second thought in terms of marriage. I have this loyal girlfriend, she’s still in school, under strict parents so I’m trying to assist in my little capacity but most time I got turn down from her when I think she’s supposed to do for me. At least a birthday gift will do instead excuse(s). I understand she’s not working 😏.