I’m in a relationship that’s not particularly new, on the surface it seems perfect but I’m starting to observe quite a number of red flags. The biggest one is the constant belittling. He seems to nitpick at the smallest, most unnecessary details, I just noticed that subconsciously I’m always on edge around him and always trying to not give him anything to complain about but he always seems to just find a way. The problem is other than this and some other minor things, he’s perfect. He takes care of me and I actually have feelings for him but I just can’t shake off the feeling that this seemingly minor thing will get nastier in the near future.