So I’ve had this friend for a long long time and then they traveled out of the country a few years ago. Then afterwards I did most of the checking up on them. They got a partner recently and communication effectively stopped altogether.
They were always saying they’re busy all the time. I’m busy as well but I still try to keep in touch. After I called them out last month, they never even bothered to reach out afterwards.
I guess the friendship is pretty much over.
They are one of the oldest friend I’ve had.
(I don’t want to specify their gender, hence the pronouns)