I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. Everything is good and all but I have been lagging behind in my spiritual life. My pastor had a dream about it last year before the relationship started but I was pinning it to some other sins I’ve committed. Where I am right now in life without God I know very well that I can never be here. So my pastor has noticed that his dream is coming to pass, he called me after sermon and warned me, honesty I know that I’m not that close to God as before. I’ve made up my mind that I want to be calibate, and also return to the way I was with God but I know deep down that it will affect my relationship. How do I go about this? How do I tell my boyfriend that I want to stop having sex or coming over to his place, I don’t know. I feel like if he even accepts, last last he will get tried. Should I just breakup with him instead? Or should I let him know and hope for the best? *** my relationship with my boyfriend isn’t toxic or stopping me from attending church only that whenever I go to his place, I stay for weeks and my post in church is lagging*** I’m a worker in church.

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  1. This is a huge thing. One thing you could do is to talk to your boyfriend about it. But the problem with that is he might not agree. Even if he does, I can bet it won’t last. He might resolve to cheating or emotional blackmail. Any relationship built on sex are very difficult to retract. Since you seem to be so concerned and passionate about your spiritual life, I advice you break up with your boyfriend. While breaking up with him, have a good conversation with him on the need to regain your spiritual connection with God and how much the relationship has been a hindrance. Good luck with everything 😘😘


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