I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. Everything is good and all but I have been lagging behind in my spiritual life. My pastor had a dream about it last year before the relationship started but I was pinning it to some other sins I’ve committed. Where I am right now in life without God I know very well that I can never be here. So my pastor has noticed that his dream is coming to pass, he called me after sermon and warned me, honesty I know that I’m not that close to God as before. I’ve made up my mind that I want to be calibate, and also return to the way I was with God but I know deep down that it will affect my relationship. How do I go about this? How do I tell my boyfriend that I want to stop having sex or coming over to his place, I don’t know. I feel like if he even accepts, last last he will get tried. Should I just breakup with him instead? Or should I let him know and hope for the best? *** my relationship with my boyfriend isn’t toxic or stopping me from attending church only that whenever I go to his place, I stay for weeks and my post in church is lagging*** I’m a worker in church.