I have been married six years now, never had sex with my wife as she has a condition called vaginismus. It’s incredibly hard to stay sane. I’ve gone through all the stages, anger, withdrawal. I guess life is short. I’m going to get me a side chick. Probably do an IVF to stave off relatives
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Vaginismus can be treated and it’s not something that can carry on till the end of time. It could be caused by fear towards sex or sexual harassment or rape. Visit a doctor who can guide you forward on ways you and your wife can enjoy sex moving forward. Even if it means going for couple’s therapy please do so. Don’t give up on her just yet.