Got married to a single mother some years ago, with a son. I love that boy so much but every little disagreement, the boy becomes an “object” of the conflict. If I correct the boy, it’s a fight of “don’t touch my son again”. Lately, been thinking of getting someone pregnant outside and have my own baby since she cares only about the boy alone . She’s not ready to have another baby in another two years and I’m not getting younger anymore. Maybe it was a mistake getting married to a single mom.
in Confession
Connotare 
Well, this is hard. We are parents, and it is the thing we argue about the most, how to raise the kids, and don’t say this or that. We cannot tell you the right path, but since she will probably not change you will have to. It works now for us, because we made the changes necessary, and it was mostly one giving in more.