I shared the “Confused” secret and I have read the comments. This would be one of the hardest decisions I’d have to make but I will make it anyway. I couldn’t find fault in her as a reason for the breakup. I took her virginity . We’ve just been best friends.

Her dad is married to another lady and she recently lost her mom. At a point I started plans to bring her over but I figured it’d be too much as she’s still in school. So I’ve made up my mind to sponsor her till she graduates . She’d be so hurt I can tell. I’m hurt too for deciding to leave someone I know I love and someone who’s truly good. I still welcome advice on how to leave her in the most understandable and peaceful way. 

I pray I won’t regret my decision!