Confused

I am in a long distance relationship with a guy for a year and some months now . We were long distance friends for 2 years before we started dating. Along the line, I grew out of love , I don’t know how it happened but I just find myself not loving him like before . I’m no longer attracted to this guy and I feel anyone you’re in a relationship with, you should at least like the sight of him and like somethings about him but i can’t flaunt him as my man though he’s caring and a very good person . We don’t really talk much even on phone , video calls is once in 2 months . We only exchange pleasantries and sometimes whine ourselves, we argue most times . I’ve told him more than three times even before now that the relationship is so boring to me and that I’m not sure we can end up getting married . All fell on deaf ears . I did this to make him let go but instead he held on to me tightly . I even tried breaking up with him after some months of dating because I don’t like deceiving people . I’m blunt but he didn’t let go ,
He tells me he loves me and he tries to show it . He’s been talking of taking the relationship to the next level (marriage) but I’m scared and I don’t want to break his heart . I’ve talked to him about these issues but there is no changes and he still claims to love me,
please what can I do??
PS: he’s a husband material, a million yards and even my pastor said he’s good for me.

One comment

  1. If you have to talk yourself into it, then, it’s not much of a relationship to build on. An invitation to disaster in your future. Even if he is good husband material, it’s not fair to him if you’re just settling for him. Be honest with him and yourself. Sending light-n-love.

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