After reading some comments, I would like to ask “When someone breaks up with you , do the feelings automatically die and how do you go about healing in a month without doing something like sex, drugs and you don’t have money to travel else that’ll be my option?”

Back to the main matter, mistaking kindness for Love.
What would you do if you were in the shoes of “Going back to someone who broke up with you , now they want you back and can’t bear you moving on with someone else. Based on experience, the person has/will harm themselves if they don’t have you.?”

Should you go back at their favour or prove you really moved on and don’t care?