It hurts when you wholeheartedly give yourself to someone and receive nothing but turmoil in return. This is honestly the reason why they advise to wait until marriage to have sex. When you get intimate with someone and the person hurts you , the pain is deeper than getting hurt by someone you never exchanged those ties with. Guys please, if you don’t want to be with someone, just be up front and honest about your intentions. If you just want sex let that be known too. I’m not a virgin but I wouldn’t just have sex with anyone that’s hung like a horse . It feels good to genuinely make love to someone you deeply care about. I’m hurting but fuck him. He led me on.