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When I first moved to Lagos, my neighbor mentioned joining tinder to meet people. I joined innocently and was lucky to meet a guy, who happens to be the only person I met off the app. We never crossed platonic lines, yet this guy is (more…)

June 10, I’ll be 29. I was financially stable before, now I’m down facing a lot of life challenges. I just wish I found someone out there to help me so I can bounce back as a guy. I’m totally tired 😓

I moved to the Uk one month ago. I’ve not gotten a job, I came for my masters. I own a clothing brand in Nigeria. The little sales I’ve made in a month na him dey sustain me. Two people have asked me to borrow them money since (more…)

My girl did this thing with me, billed me in presence of crowd (mostly her friends). The way I take fall her hand ehh, madam start to cry as (more…)

At 21, life’s puzzle, pieces don’t fit. Tough luck, no job, no money, a financial hit. School’s not done, yet (more…)

I really don’t understand how some ladies think. You complained to me about being maltreated by your husband who you married when you were barely 17. I offered listening ears, gave my own (more…)

I know suicide is not an option but i’ve been having suicidal thoughts lately and it’s even being visualized in my head. I’m so sad and depressed and i’m just starting my life. It is well (it isn’t)

I’m a hairy babe, but the hair on my head isn’t long, though use to be before I cut it down years ago now they (more…)

I hate being in need of things I can’t afford. I hate asking people for things. I hate it more if when I ask, the people I ask can’t help me. I think being in need is the worst place a person can ever be.

I’m tired 😪. I think I’m hanging on a thread. Nothing makes sense anymore. The most important things in my (more…)

My husband hasn’t had sex with me since 2020, ignoring all my attempts at seduction. Desperate, I confided in an old school friend, breaking down (more…)

From what I’ve seen, poor people miss out on so many potential opportunities (likely because of fatigue, caged mentality, appearance, inarticulacy, and more). Someone once begged me (more…)

It’s been almost a year since I was raped. I am hurting badly. Judgement is taking so long. He’s twisting the story, dropping lies here and (more…)

Since my man came to introduce himself to my family I’ve been receiving so much bad energy. Because of one or two issues we had that I confided in my (more…)