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It’s officially two years since I met my ex, we had the most beautiful relationship and then the most toxic, but while it was good it was good. Now we’re not together anymore, we still (more…)

I broke up with my fiancé last year because I couldn’t afford being an insecure, aggressive lover; that’s not me. She gets thousands of messages from musicians, actors, PAs of politicians, even people I look up to who (more…)

If we can go three days without speaking to each other, we might as well not speak to each other for the rest of our lives

No one talks about the loneliness that comes with staying abroad without any friends close to you. You might have one or two friends but they don’t really know the African style like how we (more…)

I’m 21 years old and I recently got married to a 31-year-old guy. My supposed husband has erectile dysfunction and low sperm count. I cheated on him (more…)

These boys think they are rich or richer than me. They don’t know I wear JacobandCo Astonomia Revelation Four in my imagination. Don’t play with me

Knew I needed to stop smoking when I played ball this morning and I was already out of breath within 15 minutes. It has never happened before but I (more…)

Gym bros need to understand that good sex isn’t about being extremely rough and hard. This boy almost destroyed me, I was literally screaming and he (more…)

My husband’s friend and his wife, marriage of 16 years, is shaking. Hubby wouldn’t spill the tea, saying it’s private, but I worked my charm and got the scoop. 😂😂🤣 So his wife (more…)

I’m a lady who’s always been bi-curious since I can remember but too scared to act on it. So, I just recently moved to Katsina and I stumbled across this page on Facebook where I met this Hausa lady. We quickly made plans to meet and (more…)

I love my girlfriend to death but sex with her is just not pleasurable at all. I can’t break up with her because other than the unpleasant sex she’s actually a sweet person and a good person. But the sex just isn’t working, it’s dry, uncomfortable, filled with complaints and (more…)

Found myself crying a lot lately only because I miss physical touch. I miss my man so much that I’m starting to lose my mind. I want to hold hands (more…)

I’m a nonchalant lover boy and my girlfriend is used to her ex chasing her and i don’t have that energy. And she lowkey compares me to (more…)

I am exhausted mentally, emotionally, and physically. Nothing seems to be working. I’ve sent out countless CVs, yet no response. In this economy, finding a job feels like chasing (more…)