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How do you overcome shame genuinely. Borrowed some money and blocked the owner out of a shame (I already paid half though) he found out I blocked him and came (more…)

It’s my second year in Asia, I was jobless for a few months and I got a sugar mummy, she sorted me, and still sorts me, we fuck once a week, but I wonna stop because I now have a good job and I want to marry my naija babe, I don’t know how to tell her. I went to the bar thinking I will (more…)

My girlfriend said she can never cook for a man she’s not married to, the best she can do is bring food from home. She can stay with me for a week, be on her phone while I cook, and sometimes I pause my work just to prepare food for us while she’s (more…)

I’m literally the best child, best friend and best girlfriend anybody could ever ask for but nobody ever appreciates it and I’ve never gotten the love back. I’ve always had good grades, don’t disrespect my (more…)

I’ve been into a relationship recently with this girl younger 17 and I’m 24. Okay fine but there’s something bothering me if she truly loves me. She denied me sex twice. And also my ex called and said (more…)

Since i asked myself what i was benefiting from my relationship with my girl it hasn’t remained the same, we were having a conversation one day and i told her a few immaterial things i do for her (more…)

I never knew I was ever going to conceive in this life, pcos, hormonal imbalance, irregular mentration etc. Found out yesterday I was pregnant after 9 years of having sex, I’m 29. Unfortunately, I’m not financially stable for a child, went through with the abortion today and it (more…)

Do girls that have boyfriends that spend on them have 2 heads, why is my own different. Ordinary #14k that I asked my man to pay for something, he is telling me I should wait and that he has (more…)

Recently, I realized it was time to settle down. I reached out to one of my oldest friends, flew her into my city, we had an amazing time, I told her I was ready for marriage and I wanted to go on this next phase with her. She laughed in (more…)

I love my mother so much and I’m working hard to make her happy and spoil her. But the truth of the matter is that some of the decisions that is affecting (more…)

My biggest fear has come to past, i’ve always been scared of a healthy relationship. What if i start dating and it works out and i don’t get to be single again 😭😭. Now they’re telling me (more…)

Tell me why, after all the back and forth we did. I finally decided to hit the nail on the head and make sure to end things with this boy, so he can focus on his (more…)

I told my male best friend who has been asking me out that we should stay friends. He loves and cares for me, even gave me #10m in 6 months to help me start my hair and perfume business because he (more…)

After all the back and forth I ended it, it was too toxic. Yes we’d broken up, he fucked many other people, I fucked someone else, he fucked my friend but I thought toxic as that might be, we had an understanding (dumb as that may sound) we couldn’t leave each other alone, until he sent me a text I found very (more…)