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I and my boyfriend have been away from each other for a year now. He’s out of the country and I’m in Nigeria. It’s been all lovey dovey and beautiful until recently we started having issues. He gets worked up easily due to the work stress he (more…)

My husband doesn’t like to cuddle with me so I always try to initiate it to feel closer to him but he likes to push me away and I always end up feel some (more…)

As a kid growing up, I used to be upset & sad when grownups scolds us for playing outside during the day, thought they were just wicked & didn’t (more…)

I thought of enrolling in a fitness program, because I was already getting out of shape. So I shared this thought with my mum and she said “find the one that suits you, I’ll sort out the payment” a week later I had found one and I told her, she began to have an attitude, shouting at (more…)

I think I hate my husband, that unfaithful cunt. They were right don’t go through his phone but how would I have know that I married a serial cheat who sleeps with different women at 2 to 3 times every week except days when he’s low on cash of cause but that even depends (more…)

Do men know that their infidelity hurts women. That the way they can’t fathom the thought of another man on their woman is the same way women feel in reverse. You want to get intimate with your husband and all I can think of is if that’s what he (more…)

I’m the type of man that if I’m dating you and I’m not providing I’ll hate myself and leave which is why since I’ve been low financially, I find it hard to communicate with my babe and this has been (more…)

I feel bad saying this but my Fiance’s dick is too big and long and it’s making me reconsider marrying him. It’s a huge problem. We practiced. celibacy before he engaged me. After the engagement, we’ve been staying together most times. The few times we do stuff together, I literally can’t do anything again. I bleed, my (more…)

I met him on tiktok like a month ago, we haven’t met because he’s been in and out of the country we would meet this weekend. I’m so sexually attracted to him, like the tension is so wild. We can both feel it but no one wants to say anything (more…)

I hate how my friend’s husband is using the children to manipulate her and frustrate her schooling. We’re in law school together and by December we’ll b done. Because of the kids she travels between Enugu Campus (lawsch) and Benin every weekend for peace to reign because he keeps (more…)

I’m never going to forgive my father, that “forgive your father you don’t know when he’s going to leave earth” bullshit don’t move me. He was a terrible man, raped all the house helps that stayed (more…)

This guy is traveling out tomorrow and to be honest our relationship hasn’t been great, a lot has happened that has led me to constantly ending things and being manipulated back into it. But something happened last night when he (more…)

I feel so stupid😔, promised myself I would be celibate till my birthday this year and I messed up, that’s not even the crazy part, I had sex and it turned into pregnancy 😆😆 and I already blocked the (more…)

Earlier this year I turned down a trip outside Nigeria with a man, refused interstate links, ended all friends with benefits. I hoped to be a legit millionaire by the end of the year, drafted (more…)