Connotare

My relationship is dying because my girlfriend doesn’t know how to communicate, I’ve tried to understand how communication works with her, I’m finally tired! She’s weaponized my emotional vulnerability, funny thing is I wouldn’t have understood this if I hadn’t seen a movie where the (more…)

I just discovered that I am 5 weeks pregnant, I don’t know what to do. I really don’t want to keep it, I am not even close to ready to become a mother, I don’t want to bring a child into a world where (more…)

Earlier last week I wanted to restock so I needed all the money I could get. So I decided to do a clearance sale, I ended up selling only two inner wears. I was sad but I just decided to do with what I had. Fast forward to weekend, after I was (more…)

Relationship of 4 years ended. No money in my account despite earning N150k/month. I feel okay but I am tired of everything. I cannot kill myself because it (more…)

Finding out my friend who told me to divorce my husband gets beaten by hers made me very angry. Why are women like this to one another. My husband takes good care of me and our kids. He buys me gifts every month and even supports my (more…)

Is there something wrong with me. The guys I like keep hurting and ghosting me. The last one really broke me, we were on the phone all night, he didn’t even want me to sleep, and he even offered to drive down to see me that night. But the day we were meant to have our first date he said (more…)

Lol this babe says I’m too good to be true after we spent time together and had sex. Me that is just normal and average, the bar really low for street

I don’t know what’s wrong with me. My mom is fine, just a health condition we’re managing but I’m constantly thinking myself to tears because I can’t (more…)

Us guys fell off as a community. I remember growing up, any of your friends that’s making .decent bread will not hesitate to put you on immediately you ask, he’ll connect you with his employer, both of you will close same time, trek home (more…)

Had sex with this girl, we are kinda friends but not really, we were just supposed to hangout but got carried away, fuck! I think I’m falling in love wtf. I haven’t stopped thinking about (more…)

I stopped attending church over a year ago, I wasn’t offended or anything. I just stopped. A lot of things just doesn’t add up about religion generally, it is a tool used to enslave people and keep them powerless when they are made to think that (more…)

What do men actually want. Have had this friend for 6 years, he bas been chasing me, not like chasing he’s my friend normal nothing else. Fast forward to 2025, i started showing interest from June, have always been scared because i (more…)

My brother used to watch me shower all the time right from when we were younger, we started bathing together at age 14 and we started touching each other, I liked it. I got disvirgined at age 19 by my (more…)

I’ve always had more than a passing interest for making money legally in the digital space. In 2018, I offered my writing/publishing services on the side on Fiverr, while working as a church admin earning N25,000 although I didn’t take the writing/publishing seriously, I surmise that ignorance played its part in that. Fast forward to 2020, a new pastor (he eventually became my defacto godfather in PH) was transferred to the branch and he (more…)