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She’s everything on paper, people keep asking why I am yet to take the next step but I don’t feel like I love her as much as I’m supposed to love my wife. Something just feels off, I tried communicating (more…)

I met a girl and I liked her, but I didn’t approach her. Years later, I met her friend and we vibed really well, talked everyday and even helped her get a job. We fucked a few times though, she found out that I liked her friend and just (more…)

I’m wondering if my neighbors see me as a fool because I’m a giver. Every time they come into my house, one walks straight to my fridge or grabs anything she sees, another takes any food stuff she spots, and the third asks me what I cooked so (more…)

Theres this guy i liked, we went out a couple of times etc, i found myself calling him randomly, streaking him etc but i can’t really say i got the vibe back, even when i asked him to get me something he responded in quite a rude way & apologised so i just withdrew. He lodged at the (more…)

I’m 19 and my boyfriend is 24, I’m a very beautiful girl with a nice physique and my boyfriend is very cute. The guy has a car and he’s a forex trader, he also has other side jobs. He’s been chasing me since July, i met him on Instagram but we were just off and on, so we finally met around October and the first day I slept over at his place but we didn’t have sex. I told him i was on my period because i didn’t want anything to happen. I’m a virgin and I’m not (more…)

Omo you people should be careful out there please, I went out with my ex he sha delayed me and I had to follow him home. He wanted to sleep with me I refused and he forcefully suck my breast and place my hand on his dick. I’m not sure of what (more…)

What is it with this generation of men wanting to be chased. I was on my own and you came to toast me. You persisted so much and didn’t give me a breathing space until I accepted. Now you’re forming boss (more…)

My girlfriend is traveling home today we just finished NYSC, she works here though so she’s coming back, me i have nothing doing here so i will be relocating. I’m having mixed feelings, this is reminding me of the last day i saw my ex after (more…)

Rounded up with NYSC last week, i didn’t serve in Lagos or top 5 biggest cities i even paid for relocation to a top 5 state which failed 😞 else i won’t be in this situation. I have been applying to remote jobs for months with no response. All my friends have traveled but I’m still here I can’t go home, I’m just asking (more…)

Everyone thought i didn’t love her, she also doubted most of the times but whose fault certainly not hers, I’m probably just incapable of loving the way she wants or just unworthy of her love. Well also not my fault because wtf did y’all expect from someone that almost died in a crash, got stabbed in the back by people I (more…)

If my brother knows the kind of advice his wife and I give each other ehn, he won’t let us near eachother. One time, I advised her to leave the baby with him (more…)

No longer investing my emotions where they are not valued, where I don’t feel seen. Never. I choose peace and clarity henceforth. I choose me. These men do not deserve it.

I think I just realized i might be alone for the rest of my life. The last talking stage i had did me bad and I honestly have lost interest in meeting new people. Like I just don’t take any interest in new people. Even almost started thinking of (more…)

Nigerian youths are too fat and it’s scary, young guy or girl but your belly is massive. You’re living in a country with poor healthcare system and you’re eating anyhow. Please reduce oil l, reduce the amount of rice you eat, eat (more…)