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I’m exhausted, but saying it out loud might make me seem weak. Everything just feels overwhelming right now.

A month after my elder sister’s wedding last year her husband started beating her because of his “bestie”. My Brother in law and Bestie were at the wrong place (more…)

I’m in my early 20s. I’ve been dating this guy for 3 years now. I started dating him right after i left my toxic ex who beat me up. He’s a good man but I’m not attracted to him at all. I hate his body, I hate his smell, I hate (more…)

The beginning of last year was good but all of a sudden got worst to the extent that I was in a huge debt. I prayed to God to be able to clear the debt (more…)

I’m sad and tired. Someone I was vibing with for a while just turned cold on me. No argument, nothing. Just started keeping distance and unfollowed me. I’m not going to reach out, just accepting (more…)

Deep down you know where you stand with someone, hope might blur the lines but you really know where you standing with whoever

During this festive period my girlfriend came to stay with us as we travel with my family for Christmas and one day I found her and my mom in a room making out. How can I be homophobic my mom is gay, was in a shock but I later joined them. I didn’t touch my mom ooh just freaky scene with my girl, No wonder my mom has been putting pressure on me to marry

My baby mother thinks she can pepper me by taking away our child and make me absent in his life, I’m just here chilling and making money. What I know is that when the boy grows up and sapa/bills hits, he will definitely find his dad. I grew up in the same scenerio after all (more…)

One of my situationship used to tell me how she liked bad boys and being treated badly turns her on, lol I just heard gist of how she’s dragging (more…)

I used to be fat, now I am slim. When I was big, slim men didn’t let me rest. Now I am slim huge men won’t let me rest. And when I explain to these huge (more…)

I feel like I am the only single lady left in my peer group; thinking of trying a dating app; but I don’t know which one to try, which one is reliable. I am so lonely.

This past Christmas holiday I enjoyed myself to the max. Money was flooding in from different toasters/love interests. These men were falling over (more…)

Tell me why this guy who dickmatized me years ago and left me hanging randomly sent me a happy new year pretty on the 1st of January and boom I’m back (more…)

I had a conversation with my boyfriend today and I felt so disappointed not gonna lie. So he asked me what i would support with, if we got married with two kids and he earns lesser, he made an instance with him earning (#30k) while I earn (#200k), my response was (more…)