No one talks about how hard it is to stop porn and masturbation. That shit it almost impossible to stop. I’ve been trying for (more…)

The last time I posted something here was my jamb journey. Now I’m in school studying my dream (more…)

I practically resent my supervisor. She talks down on us at every opportunity she gets even in the presence of customers. I feel really drained mentally. Going to work is something (more…)

I’m slowly losing my mind. I’m 24 years old and I feel like I have nothing going on for me in life, the economic situation of this country (more…)

I find it hard to stay in a room with my girlfriend without having physical contact and I don’t mean sex, she’s not a fan of it and goes ahead to say that I don’t bend for her. I don’t know again honestly

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I think I’m beginning to understand her better and I have decided that I would leave it up to her to initiate the whole thing because it’s a win win that way

I have this colleague, she learnt from me and I kept putting her through when they’ve set her up. It’s tiring for me cause she’s (more…)

I feel so sad right now, as I write this. So I travelled out and I got back into my city over the weekend and I immediately went (more…)

No one told me how difficult it could be dating one’s boss. I got a negative feedback from the article I spent hours working on (more…)

It is easy to be strong when you’ve got no other option. Just had a miscarriage. One minute I’m pregnant. Next cramps, then heavy bleeding and just (more…)

Most women in Nigeria are extremely lazy, that’s why you can see a girl with a pretty face but the body is just unattractive or lacks (more…)

At this rate with the way my heart is aching, I know that if I mistakenly fall down, I am gone. Is this how heartbreak feels. I am in so much pain (more…)

I think I need to have sex this weekend honestly 😭, I’m losing my mind, it’s as if I’m about to get a seizure. I haven’t had sex (more…)

This man tries his best in bed, but I don’t know. Sex or masturbating doesn’t get me anywhere. I don’t see the hype around intimacy. I’m going to come out as asexual.

I just lost my virginity and I feel so bad, guilty and sad about it. I thought about it before giving it away but after doing it (more…)