Dating is so hard when you don’t want kids in Nigeria. You just have to tell them so you won’t be deceitful. But alas! Every Tom, Dick and Harry want kids. Just a lover person not loving 😦

Had sex with a guy I’ve been in a talking stage with for a while now and I made sure he put a condom on. When I felt him come in me I pushed him away thinking the condom broke but this bastard had taken off the condom, I don’t even know when. Crashed the fuck out at his stupid and left. Took a morning after pill and i have an appointment to get tested for STD’s tomorrow Friday and I’m scared as fuck. If he gave me anything I swear y’all are seeing me on the fucking news.

Update on the test results

I was the girl whose sex partner took off CD sometime during sex and found out reading comments that it was a crime. The test results show nothing and I was told to do another in 2 weeks, my roommate who is a pharmacist got me on pep and morning after pills so I’m covered on that front. We did go to the police but were laughed out and that experience I don’t even want to revisit so my friends and I put his pictures on snap and said what he did because it’s a small circle and if it can help someone else then I’m fine. Thanks y’all

Update

I’m the girl whose sex partner removed CD mid-intimacy and I’ve done the tests which showed i was in the clear but I have another scheduled in 2 weeks. My friend is a nurse and did get me on pep and morning after so I’m good on that end. We did go to the police station to see if it could be reported but we were mocked out and that incident burns me up just thinking about it but my friends and I put his picture and reposted on our snaps and WhatsApp statuses warning people of what he did and more girls reposted sharing in my outrage. He tried reaching out telling me to take them down but I just kept cursing him and blocking his numbers so. Thanks for the support guys.

I wonder if him constantly looking at half naked girls and sending their profiles to himself and also using funny soaps and creams from prophets sent by his family members for “goodluck” is enough (more…)

My babe and I just started getting comfortable with each other. Fart in front of each other, use the toilet in front of each other without spraying bathroom spray kind of comfortable. But she took it too far this morning. Was brushing my (more…)

Not everybody that looks normal is actually normal. Became friends with this babe mid- last year and that has to be the worst friendship I’ve had. It was too demanding, always wants me to be replying her even when I’m not online but (more…)

Some losses aren’t because you were careless. Sometimes they happen because you believed someone’s intentions matched their words. The story ends there, but the lesson stays.

I love butt not boys. It’s as simple as that. Big butt attracts me

Dear God, I’m not ungrateful, but if it’s going to be rougher than this for me, please just take my life!

I lost a friend of mine today, i’m so mad at myself and i hate myself for not talking to him over a silly argument we had. I should’ve hugged you more the last time we saw if i knew that was the last time. I should let you know how much you (more…)

Don’t be a foodie and just eat anything you see. Ask well before you eat anything in anybody’s fridge. After work on Friday, I decided to follow a colleague home because I had an all night not far from her area. She offered me drinks and food. So she went into her room and I needed more water (more…)

For those of us with good intentions, we go through a lot emotionally, we just have to man up. I miss my babe let me not lie it’s been 5 months 😂. She texted me sometime ago to tell me that she misses me, we chatted and even spoke. I dropped the last message for her about a (more…)

I don’t like my career. Never did even as a student. Before I go to work, I’m anxious, can’t sleep, I just keep having palpitations. At work, I’m very unhappy the entire time but of course you (more…)

This girl should leave me alone. Never told her I want her. Everytime we were together I made it clear it’s just casual for me. This has gone on too long. When I get married, I won’t have her come in and ruin it for me. She should just (more…)

That myth about air hostesses being whores. Factual. I recently got out of a relationship with my ex, who I found out was having sex with a man old enough (more…)