I don’t know what’s wrong with me. My mom is fine, just a health condition we’re managing but I’m constantly thinking myself to tears because I can’t (more…)

Us guys fell off as a community. I remember growing up, any of your friends that’s making .decent bread will not hesitate to put you on immediately you ask, he’ll connect you with his employer, both of you will close same time, trek home (more…)

Had sex with this girl, we are kinda friends but not really, we were just supposed to hangout but got carried away, fuck! I think I’m falling in love wtf. I haven’t stopped thinking about (more…)

I stopped attending church over a year ago, I wasn’t offended or anything. I just stopped. A lot of things just doesn’t add up about religion generally, it is a tool used to enslave people and keep them powerless when they are made to think that (more…)

What do men actually want. Have had this friend for 6 years, he bas been chasing me, not like chasing he’s my friend normal nothing else. Fast forward to 2025, i started showing interest from June, have always been scared because i (more…)

My brother used to watch me shower all the time right from when we were younger, we started bathing together at age 14 and we started touching each other, I liked it. I got disvirgined at age 19 by my (more…)

I’ve always had more than a passing interest for making money legally in the digital space. In 2018, I offered my writing/publishing services on the side on Fiverr, while working as a church admin earning N25,000 although I didn’t take the writing/publishing seriously, I surmise that ignorance played its part in that. Fast forward to 2020, a new pastor (he eventually became my defacto godfather in PH) was transferred to the branch and he (more…)

Maybe it’s my boyfriend that’s a fool. He and his ex have been seeing each other from the beginning of our relationship till now. We’re almost a year, sometimes he’ll text her while we’re together but recently he never texts her while we’re together. Now we had issues and I noticed the (more…)

This guy I met when I was in a really dark place helped me, pulled me out and supported me how he could, I fell for him and asked that we should date but he said he had to prioritize his career first, so I took that as my cue to prioritize mine too. Not long after he started talking about us dating and having a life but I (more…)

Been in debt for more than a year and I’ve been praying to God to help me clear it up, opportunities come but always don’t work out. A family friend of ours who we call our grandfather asked me what I wanted him to do for me and I asked him to please invest in my business and he said after (more…)

Nobody knows I drank my early morning urine for 7 days to cure my chronic ulcer but it still didn’t work. I’m tired of doing everything I see online, I rest my case. I’ll learn to leave with ulcer forever.

There was a lady sometime last year on connotare who gifted me some money while I posted about going through so much and she was even helping me job scout. I lost my Instagram and I’ve been (more…)

Just a month into the relationship and I’m already tired and I don’t even get why. Maybe it’s because we don’t see as much as I would want us to. He stays on the mainland and I stay on the island, the (more…)

I’m genuinely thankful that she did what I knew I should have done a long time ago (ended the relationship). We broke up and I feel this sense of calm and peace. Crazy I still miss her and what could (more…)