My husband said something that really hurt me, and I’m struggling to let it go. We workout together, and I’ve always found cardio challenging. I’m a size 8/10, not overweight, but he compared me to women on Instagram who do an hour on the (more…)
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My two angels
Me and my wife have been together since 2006. We lived in poverty. God later shinned his light on us. An old friend from university met me as a keke driver, she helped me back and forth for (more…)
Boyfriend
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3years and 6months. He has always been nonchalant but I feel he was going to change. We had a minor argument recently that I’m not comfortable about (more…)
Who is who
Met this guy few days ago and we decided to go out with my friends too, we all had fun at the party and after the party before we left to our various places (more…)
patriarchy makes me violent
I think I’ve been emotionally stunted when it comes to male and AMAB friendships because of the weird power dynamics i had with my older “friends” in high school (borderline grooming). I can’t have normal friendships without feeling a (more…)
No going back
I’m not the type that likes scrolling through people’s phone, if i borrow your phone to do something i will do it and mind my business. I checked my ex girlfriend’s phone after deciding i was going (more…)
Sports betting
This weekend i played my heart out on Sporty, i was just looking for a quick route to leave this my current predicament. I’m not a multi millionaire right now (more…)
Stumbling block
I just started learning a tech skill but there has been a stumbling block to my progress which is because I’m a smoker. Whenever I’m in the clouds I lose motivation to study which has affected my (more…)
I have become what I once criticized
I have become what I once criticized, I am unfortunately a womanizer, I love women, I’m always looking at women, I talk to and flirt with multiple women. I have too much confidence, it all started when I (more…)
Spa-jetty
This good church girl I’ve been liking pronounced spaghetti as spa-jetty. The thing almost turned me off, baby girl add aesthetics to this your vibe. But we move I no dey back down. I will be your teacher.
Life is hard
Not really a secret please, I just need business ideas I can start without money because honestly life is so hard, and everything I do feels like it’s (more…)
Lol
When I and my ex were still together, I would beg this boy to stop cheating, he refused till I broke up with him. Yesterday now he’s calling me to tell me that he wants to tell me something, only for (more…)
Happy birthday to me anyways
Today is my 25th birthday, I was excited about it a month ago until I found out I was pregnant this month and first trimester can be hell so I’ve been so sick. Anyways every year on my birthday my family never wishes me a happy birthday unless I (more…)
Shamed
My family didn’t like my girlfriend but she didn’t mind because I love her. I erroneously cheated on her, she found out and all hell broke loose. My mom and siblings came to talk to my (more…)