I never really said this out loud before, but I have a kink that revolves around being degraded and humiliated by a woman. It’s not about self-hate or thinking I’m worthless. It’s more about surrender. There’s something deeply intense about giving up (more…)

I have this neighbour whom I really want to go down with. He hasn’t given me the light of day sha, but as a girl who knows what she wants, I keep trying. I saw his girlfriend for the first time (more…)

Something isn’t adding up, but I can’t just figure it out. It seems like I live in circles. No relationship, no job, no money, lonely and still figuring out (more…)

I want to be bigger than this, but I don’t know what steps to take. I don’t want to follow my sisters who went to school, got married, are giving birth and (more…)

We are in an unofficial relationship because he’s in London and I’m in Lagos. He asked me out and said he’d ask me again when he comes to Lagos so I took him (more…)

So my boyfriend, opened up to me that he’d like to get married to a white woman so that he can get his citizenship faster. He has tried to reassure me that he’s got me and all that, he even proposed (more…)

My guy toasted this girl weeks ago if not a month sef, she didn’t say yes immediately and my guy was already concluding that it wouldn’t work but 2 days to val (more…)

This girl has been taking me for granted. She knows what I want because I didn’t hide my intentions, but after months together, sex hasn’t happened. I’ve spent like we’re dating, yet she only comes (more…)

You don’t post me at all, suddenly you turn celebrity wey dey date mystery man. It’s vals day and you’re asking for gift. Come and take.

My boyfriend and I have been doing long distance for over two years now. We usually have arguments, sometimes I’m at the wrong and the other times it’s miscommunication from both ends. When we argue he always goes silent for days even weeks. Me being as I am I don’t like conflict (or so I thought) I would always reach out first (more…)

My boyfriend and I were waiting for bus at Ojuelegba under bridge, I looked back and saw him on one knee with ring in his hand. I rejected it asap.

I fear my babe wanting more from me than i can give her, and this is what we have always discussed from the beginning of this relationship (the first night together) she told me money wasn’t the problem. I don’t have a job and she makes more (more…)

I like a guy, I send him a dm first on IG but I don’t think he is feeling me because his responses are slow. I eventually wrapped things up and moved on. The only issue now is that I ordered a cake already (more…)

My friend had this babe he was dating as of 2 years ago. Last year she got pregnant and told him, but he denied the pregnancy claiming she cheated on him and all that and as his guys we stood by him and made sure the girl left his house (more…)