Omo! I’m such an Empath is this the right word, Maybe. That’s my weakness, I end up inheriting people’s problems, like if you tell me this is what is happening and how someone was involved, omo I feel more Angry like I feel more pain because I’m trying to put myself in your position, and wish I could do something. And if I get access to communication with the 3rd party I’ll so query that person. And I’ve come to accept none of my friends can do that for me. Most likely why I don’t like hearing it at all