My boyfriend has a bad habit of making me feel small. If I hang out with my friends he would want to outdo the act and plan something bigger than the hangout. If someone gifts me something he would want to gift me something higher. If I get a job he would pay me more than what I earn. I started a business in secret and when he found out he asked that I draft how much I want to be paid so he can give me instead of doing the business. Mind you, this man doesn’t collect or use anything I give him. If I gift him something he will gift me the same thing but in higher quality or amount.