Normalize going through your parents phones, just went through my mum’s and found out she has a boyfriend she goes to see in a hotel. My dad isn’t a bad husband, he’s very loving, quiet, and doesn’t even abuse her in anyway. He goes out of his way to please her even at our detriment (the kids) but she’s just the worse. I hate her so much now. She’s just a manipulative, lying person. I won’t confront her or tell my dad, but I hate her so much.