Communication with my babe has always been poor since day one we just clocked a year. She’s doing well for herself financially and she doesn’t need my financial assistance for things, i only assist occasionally and gift or dinner. She’s earns more sha and more stable. Most times she tells me after she already starts doing or pay for something, i know i told her to tell her mom and take her opinion when spending her money, we’re not married so her mom’s suggestion should matter. But i think as couple, a call before that trip or when thinking about making a purchase or informing me before a decision should be a sign of a healthy relationship these are things i do.