So I live with my boyfriend because I currently can’t afford a space for myself, he usually goes through my personal stuff, reads my journal, my chats with GPT, I don’t cheat on him so he normally just read chats with my friends (I only have 2), chats with my parents and other personal things all while I’m sleeping, I can do the same too but I don’t because the last time I did, I found plenty evidence that he was cheating on me constantly and when I confronted him, he denied so much that I almost ran mad because his stories weren’t adding up and he kept on blaming me for going through his phone instead of admitting to what he did. Not until he found a chat of a former course mate that saw my insta page and said hi, according to him, replying his chat was a green light even when I mentioned to him that I’m not single so he doesn’t get any ideas, so I stopped going through his phone because I can’t afford to lose my mind again, this is someone that’ll leave the house if he wanted to talk to his mum, he does things that he can’t take back and blames me for using his words against him. I just want to know if I’m being paranoid or I’m not supposed to be bothered.