I’m a 19 years old virgin and my boyfriend is 25. Our relationship didn’t even reach 2 weeks before he started asking for sex. Our relationship is 1 month now. He found out I was a virgin when he tried fingering me. He got angry because I’m too tight, and then asked me why i didn’t tell him I was a virgin. I told him to leave me alone because he put his finger inside me with force and it was very painful. I told him to exercise patience until I’m ready and then he got angry and started giving me attitude. We later settled but now i don’t want to have sex with him again. He told me that the next time we meet that I should make sure that I have already disvirgin myself that he doesn’t want to stress himself. That I complain too much that sex isn’t painful, talk more of fingering. I haven’t agreed to meet him for more than 2 weeks now because he’s always inviting me to his house & I know it’s because of sex. I refuse to meet him on Valentine’s Day because he invited me to his house instead of taking me out. He hasn’t talked to me since Saturday (he’s been giving me attitude). And I also didn’t reach out. Since I knew him it’s only once that he has taken me out. He told me that when i come to his house again that we’ll go out but i refused. Although he normally gives me #20k or #25k as transport anytime I’m going to meet him (it covers both my coming and going). I normally come from school to meet him and his house is very far, it takes almost 1 hour to reach his house. I’m not even gaining anything from the transport fare. If I ask him for #20k on a normal day he won’t give me but when it comes to transporting to his house he’ll give it to me without asking (maybe it’s because he knows I won’t gain anything from it). I’ve gone to his house 3 times. I love him but i don’t feel he’s genuine. Why can’t he wait until I’m ready.