My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. 2 years long distance which we still are. Whenever there’s an argument or problem I always was the bigger person wanting to talk things out even though I was angry or the one hurt. He will wait for me to reach out then start pouring out his own hurt. If you were hurt why didn’t you reach out to talk about it. Why wait for me to reach out to express my feelings and you start saying yours. Anyways we had an argument in December 2025. The last time there was any form of contact between us was January 15th. That’s over a month. Now, I expressed how I felt about a situation I was called selfish and self centered. I recognized the pattern. This time I stood my ground of not being the bigger person. One month later, no texts, no contact at all. Safe to say i was carrying the emotional labor of the relationship. I think this is the end. I am genuinely tired. I choose myself this time.