We are in an unofficial relationship because he’s in London and I’m in Lagos. He asked me out and said he’d ask me again when he comes to Lagos so I took him as my man because I really liked him. On the 11th, He asked me to be his Val which I accepted and asked what I wanted, since he isn’t here I said money. Dude ghosted me then called me at 11pm today, I answered and he said “why are you sounding like this. Is it because you didn’t get Val gift”. Such a huge disrespect, I didn’t accept 4 dates because I thought I had a man. Girlies, date them all, may the best provider win!