I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost a year. I know we both have issues, nobody is perfect, including me but I’m trying, and we’re slowly working through them. My real concern is her family, her parents and brothers. Are these the people who would be my children’s future grandparents and uncles. It worries me, and I’m not sure I can handle it. This isn’t about money, I’m broke now but I know things will change. It’s about them, I’ve never heard anything positive, and I feel they’ll cause problems in the future. If my girlfriend and I have issues, who would even advise her. 😂 Which of them is responsible enough. Relationships are crazy, you have to do due diligence. Now I feel sick, like I’ve wasted someone’s time.