Had this little fling with this man, that has been chasing me for years. Next thing, little to no communication. I feel used and really terrible because i have never been in a relationship because i thought and felt to myself that men are users and scammers. Only for me to give it a trial and i was used. No one prior to this man has ever touched me the way this man did. What’s worse is that we attend the same church and i am always bound to see him every time i go to church. How do I recover from this