My friend visited town and i went to see her at her hotel. I was on a call with my man when he asked me to switch to a video call because he heard a male voice at the background. I declined because I lied about my whereabouts earlier. I quickly booked a ride and left the hotel immediately and was calling him nonstop but he kept declining and ghosted me for some days and when he eventually spoke to me he said ‘I went for hooks/threesome’. He said he is hurt and doesn’t want to speak to me for now until he is mentally ready. I had to come clean about what happened and swore that nothing like that ever happened, still he keeps giving me the silent treatment but he still likes my pictures on social media, checks on my mum, never missed my weekly allowance and his ATM is still with me. I tried to purchase something today at the mall and I tried it, it worked. Still we don’t talk, it’s been weeks of no communication. I miss him and I regret my actions. It’s not been easy for me being that he is so many miles away and different time zone. It’s well, I will just give him space till he comes around.