I met this guy last year who was very much well to do but never gives me a penny. Flies first class ✈, nice apartment, buys expensive stuff. But when it comes to me he does nothing for me not even as little as #10k. So i ended it. Now i met this new guy who is just average, earning #250k monthly, lives in just a two rooms apartment, makes budget on everything he needs to buy, but he treats me right, is kind, he can give me #20k comfortably from what he earns. But I thought about it, can a family survive with a #250k salary nowadays if i decide to marry him. He doesn’t have enough and i know that eventually we’ll suffer one way or the other. Even if i have my money as a woman, i need a man that makes me feel secure financially 😕